I have Awesome work and awesome team

I have so awesome work place that I'm amazed about that. Everyone is like friends to each other and everyone standing up each other.

Same thing is in my team. I have one colleague which is teacher like me and she'sjust great personality. She's kind, friendly and she respect other people and myprofession. And we have awesome nanny. She keeps the bounderies to the children'sand likes to be whit them.

And above the all, we have awesome humor in my team.

It's so obvious that I have changed my work place. Last place was work from hell.

I don't say that my work is like walking on roses. The spirit is awesome but the work with isn't always that. Now I has to decide what I do. I have one child+the family where the father is very abusive against his son. If things don't change, I has to make difficult decision: Do I call the the child services or not.

Other boy is abandonment of a child. There is another difficult decision.

I can't understand why they don't take care of their offspring? How they can abuse their children?

These children's are great personality's. One needs bounderies and other needs caring. We give them what they need but we can't do everything. Parents has to do something.

A) I can't do my training without helping hand

Today I saw it. Now I has to be honest to myself, I can't train without helping "hand".

90 % I can do without assistant but when I need to train my balance muscle, I need 1 person to tell me when I'm not standing straight and when I'm leaning too much on one side.

I can't see when I'm leaning too far to left or right. Not even when I use a mirror.

It's like coaching without yelling =)

And it really would be easier to train when there is someone else who gather the looks. I could train my balance and all the scary nerds would stay away from me. Without hard training, there is no singing. When we sing, the voice uses entire body. (It's pure science now days)

Singing is part of me like my legs. I can't chop off legs. And in here nobody need to mortgage anything. [our CD's are payd by Visio Kustannus because it's gosbel] Like I would let anyone to do that. I'm not a parasite, using people for my own purposes.

B) My training schedule

These times are mine.

Tuesday 27.11 15.00

Wednesday 12.12 15.00

I really like to go to the gym on Saturday but that's just stupid. Going without bodyguard. That I learned, one time was too informative.

on Saturday's there isn't so much those "do I have tight outfit enough" - women and those "look my muscles, look how much I can lift, do you want to see, no? -you mean yes" -men/nerds/geeks etc. They go in the morning.

C) My awesome new work, awesome new team and other things

And chicken's would be silent, once. CHICKEN'S a.k.a KANAT = giggle adult women

Why these days adults laugh other people? Especially other women. When they are going to stop behaving like chicken's [like "kanat" = "there is a man, hih hih" That's odd behaving] ?

I don't say that I mind, I refuse to cry when they laugh at me (we all are adults and we don't know each other) when I try to practice my balance. It's possible that the cuckoo left from their cuckoo clock.

99 % of those women goes together with another woman. They can't go by themselves. They need another tobogganist to go there. (a.k.a. to show new clothing)

With my new work I have learn, that 99 % of bad behavior is because low self-esteem. I has to say that I am so happy about my new work place. I have awesome team, awesome colleagues, awesome boss.

Can you imagine, when I went back to my work, they where so happy about that, that they hug me. I thought that they all have been smoking something, no not really I didn't. Maybe they all ate same mushrooms. Just kidding.

Finally my humor is back, I just change work place. From Meilahti to Herttoniemi (kindergarten Siilitie) and everything changed like magic. Children are more challenging but everything else is magnificent.

MY STALKER IS BACK - now I has to move

After 5 quiet years my stalker is back.

I have change my hair color, my face is almost ready. (that was because of other reason), I have change a work place, I even studied new profession for me. And now he's back.

So I left an application today for bigger apartment. That's (I hope) from other building. (Now he lives the building which is opposite of my building, so he sees trough my windows what I do, what I eat, when I leave, etc.

By Finnish law no one can't do anything. As long he don't attack against me physically, there is nothing that any one can do.

Following me around (almost every where) isn't a crime.

Last time when I called police, when this sick man came behind my apartment door, the police told me that some one is taking care of his physical health.

Next thing is, I need to change my last name and buy a big dog.

Luckily I teach children's hows parents are police officers. He can't follow me to my preschool. (my work)

He can follow me to the gym where I go, to the University, you name it.

If I would be bigger, or single, he wouldn't follow me around.

Same rules to everyone- kiss my a...

Yeah, right!

Some of us want to participate to lectures and lessons. (Those are involuntary to all of us.) After that we has to do the exam and then we pass.

But now there's few who didn't participate to the lessons and who didn't be at the lectures and they do the exam and THEY PASS. JUSTICE, my ass.

And that exam is piece of joke, crap, shit. 150 pages from the book is in the exam.

I refuse to take that exam. I do the exam one month later. The hole book, not just the 150 pages.

They don't understand that this is university of Helsinki, not the university of lazy town. You need to do something to get great numbers.

Long time, no "see" =)

I have been so busy lately so I haven't had time to write here.

My M.A. studies are so close to the end. I need to finish one essay (15 pages). Plus I have to do 2 research and finish them. One of of those is so ready that I just write that report and give it to my teacher.

Other one is in process.

Then I create one teaching method in to my work, in our preschool and then it's done. So easy.

Then I has to start to test my theory which I created and do the report from that. And that will be my Ph.D. work. So I'll be under 40 when I'll get my Ph.D.

It's Long time from my last post

I have new job, I might told that before.

I have more work than last year. Now I really can do my work in pedagogy. Plus now I'm teacher to students of kindergarten teachers. So I work to University of Helsinki (Faculty of behavioral science) and I work to kindergarten.

And I'm the elected official too at my work place (kindergarten). It's about union duty. And I'm a person in charge about preschool.

Although I have lot of work to do, I love it.

My free time is studying, researching, the gym (of course) etc. And still my hours per day is enough. Still I have time to meet my friends and have fun.

jehovah's witnesses THE PLAGUE OF FINLAND

Just when you thought that they don't come anymore. You'll find out that NOO, they are back.

They are like plague, finally you think that it's won, and it's gone, you'll find out that something left alive. And it's spreading like a fire in dried up hay.

How the _ (f-word) I tell them to hit by track!

Next time...there will be no next time. Because now I had had it. First thing I'll do is get spyhole in my door and if they don't get out of my door, I'll tell them what comes to my mind.

They are the plague in here.

Hard decision's

I still can't decide what to do. Do I ask him or not? I know this much that if I ask his help, I'll send it to his office.

I try to think what will happen if I do that.

But the reality drives me in to ask his help.

What if he realize why I go in hospital? What if he has already figer that out?
What if he feels sick after he has count 2 plus 2?

He is a smart man. He'll get soon, especially then when he sees my face change.

What a dilemma!!

I have so awesome work place!!

I'm so happy about my work place. It's so much different in better way than the previous work place.
Everything works fine, we have great relationship between every team member in the team I work with and with other teams.

My few little things at the University [2 researches] don't mind them, my treatment at the hospital is normal to them etc. I respect them as a person and as a professional pedagogy's and vise versa. I am to them a professional teacher and professional field teacher from and to University.

It's great that I didn't turn up an asshole. All thanks to that man I love. Now I have awesome work place and lovely team members, other pedagogy's and nanny's. He didn't let the blocks fall of the "box". All the blocks are in order :D

Sorry about the misspelling. I have to write without my left forefinger because I cooked other day and I cut my finger. The blade of the knife went trough the skin, straight to the muscle. Few years ago I cooked and I burned my forehead. I kitchen towel set on fire from the electric stove. :D :D

ME IN KITCHEN

Long long time I had energy to cook.
Because I have lovely work place, they respect me and now I can do my work.

And after 30 days, I'll be a teacher to the students, who are studying in the University of Helsinki.

They are studying in the same education that I have. A kindergarten teacher/the bachelor degree of early childhood education

You can see from then picture what happened, when I started to cook. (It's not from my kitchen) :D :D

I had blood all over my kitchen, on the doors, on the floor, on the dishes, even on my frying pan.

:D

The food was great. Luckily my sister is a nurse, so I had few very good tips, how the bleeding stops.

Maybe I should take extra insurance? :D

Does you life feel boring? Don't worry, do the Russian style. Color it! 2 part

Now I can tell lovely ghost stories about my summer holiday in the Russian way.

It goes like this:

How my summer went? "Well, let me tell you. I went to cruise and I met very odd people." Then I'll add few pictures from the "Ghost Ship". Then I can keep going by adding always some pictures from different movies and tell to people that those pictures are actually from my summer holiday -album!

And wau! My summer vocation was so much neater than the others. Do copy this idea, it's not mine, it's the Russians idea.

If you don't go actually where you said you might go, just add some adaptable pictures from different movies and there you go, you had the most interesting vocation or excursion :D :D :D :D

Does you life feel boring? Don't worry, do the Russian style. Color it!

After this "little" incident I really has to think hard what to believe, when it's Russia who tells the story. Because it really can be a story!

The story is in all cases from Hollywood. Like this Russians expedition the the North Pole! What a laugh!! Did it really happen? If so, why the picture is from James Cameron's Titanic. And that found out the Finnish reader, who's hobby's are movies.

That was so bad that we Finns saw the movie!

It's so Russian's way the lie about everything and take lot different things which isn't their's. That proved "Pekka Peitsi" in 1944. The book is "Tässä sitä nyt ollaan" and I have read it. Even he said that the Russia steel what isn't theirs to keep.

Did they really thought that they don't get caught on a lie. And it's not Reuters fault, the Russia send the picture to the Reuters.

I can hear the hole world is laughing at the moment.!!

But hey, there is one good thing the Russia has finally found Titanic.

Back to Ice Stadium

I promise to my friend Katri that I'll help her with this "Urban Dream". So I'm selling the Naxok's CD's. (The name might be wrong, the point isn't)

So I have to Aleksandria to print same excell chart's. Just in case. That company has told that we might has to do same kind of inventory about the CD's I didn't sell and the CD's I did.

Helping hand would be so nice. This thing will be Sunday 12.8 about at noon. If I ahs to do that by myself, that will take forever.

And I'm not going to put my high heel's, not now when I found out that I has to carry very much money with me. Now I would really need the bodyguard with me. I can't run with the high heel's! So I has to look crappy, safety first.

More weird neighbor's

Now it's proved. I have weird neighbor's! Who wouldn't have?

Few weeks ago some dude wave. I don't know to who but when I looked, he waved again. That is the best way get yourself in deep trouble. I do not wave to a person who I can't see well! I didn't see his face. He could be anyone! even a weirdo!

Now I was sitting next to my computer and people are staring straight trough my window. I can't live behind curtains, that's just sick.

What if I would live with a bigger man than I'm, no one would wave at me, no one wouldn't stare at me. They would buy (finally) TV, DVD-player, get a life or/and try to find a life their own.

In here that's not just normal. (Actually, where it is?)

Americans in Finland - volume 2 SHIT HAPPENS, RIGHT?

I have met lot of people. More than most of people in my age.

This far I have met only 3 nice, lovely, well mannered person who are originally from U.S.A and who lives here (2 of them has lived here over 12 years and third one about 9. So THEY KNOW). Rest of them behave like ignorant American can. Think the worst kind of American and multiple that twice and add there the fact that they live here.

Didn't U.S.A wanted them there? So they send them here? Living among us!

They dislike everything, they underestimate us about in everything. To them we are: - Stupid and ignorant - we don't understand anything about our minister's or legal system - we don't know how our system works, so they tell's that to us. OH Thank you. I feel more educated now! - according to them we are so stupid that everything has to teach to us, everything about our country. - We don't cope in other country's - We can't get married with immigrants because some day we might go to our spouse's country and we don't survive there. That is state of mind. Where we put our mind into, we succeed.

And when we stand up for ourselves with words (which seems to me is too hard to most of them) they call us with faul language. And they use bad language. They believe that they can blame us and we don't stand up.

Now I understand why certain people don't want to be named by their country. Why they want to be a Finn than American. I don't blame them at all. Good for them! They are more welcome here that we are welcomed to U.S.A.

I think there should be a jury, where these 3 good people can decide who can stay here and who can't, when people comes here from U.S.A (2 of them has lived here over 12 years and third one about 9. So THEY KNOW) That is full day job! In that way in here would move so much crap from U.S.A.

One of those three I worked for about 2 years. (1998-2000) They all had already fit in this society and they are Finns (at least to me).

This isn't about those 3 people, they are beyond those kind of crap. I stand up for them as well as I stand up any other Finn. One I love more than anyone, one is my good friend and my former boss and one is my mother's family friend.

This is only about those bad behaving American's who lives in here. There are many very nice, lovely people, who I know from U.S.A and they live there. They has nothing to do with this.

Mo Ghràdh

Thank you that you are not like the other's.

You don't know how rare personality you have. How lovely you really are? No matter what the other people would say!

Tha gaol agam ort, more and more, if that's possible.

You are the only people who stands up for us. (You as well)

If I could vote in next American election...

If I could vote in next American election, I vote for Hillary Clinton!!

She is the best.

We have woman president, why they can't have one? First 3 years she has to clean up the mess, what the previous president left and then she raise the country back where it was 10 years ago.

So, my dear readers, after you have find out what issues they represent and still you think who is the BEST. Vote for Hillary Clinton!

American wedding vs. Finnish wedding

American wedding:

-Man has to ask "permission" to the marriage from the brides father.
- Huge an engagement party
- Rehearsal dinner
- Rehearsal/practice wedding
- Marriage vow
- the wedding takes few days to over a week (rehearsal this and rehearsal that, ceremony plus the wedding feast.)
- The bride and groom has to dance the waltz

Finnish wedding:

- The couple announce to their family's that their are getting married. The man don't ask permission to that from anyone.
- Small an engagement party
- NO Rehearsal dinner
-NO Rehearsal/practice wedding
- NO Marriage vow
- Small wedding
- The actual wedding takes few hours (ceremony plus the wedding feast)
- the best part to all of us who has two left legs, the waltz isn't necessity.

We get married once, we don't practice that. so if something goes wrong, it will go wrong even if you had practice that before. It's more like adventurous in that way. No, honestly you don't get so much stressed out, when you know that you don't need to practice this. Besides the marriage with the person you love is the main point, not the wedding. You can get married in barn if you like, if the person is the right person.

In Finnish wedding the bride and groom says only 2 words: "I do" Everything else comes from the priest. You can't say anything else when the priest asks:"Do you...take...?" You can't say something like:
"jep"
"oukki doukki"
"Why not?"
"If you say so"
"You wouldn't ask that if you would seen her in..."
"Do I? Let me think..."
"This isn't the line where I can sign in to the...?"
"Me...her...(little bit laugh)...yeah, right"

Just simple two words and that's it.

I know that many of you (my readers) think that we are not serious when we get married. We are. We want to keep it simple. Because the marriage is the point, not how much you can put money in the wedding. It's not that stressing when you can keep things simple.