My promise for next year

Castle: Eilean Donan Castle, Scotland

My promise is this: I take care of that, that I don´t turn up like my colleague. Although she´s good role model how to do the teaching in personal level I don´t want to end up like she has.

She is egoist, self-centered, reckless, she won´t try see things from another´s point of view.

If parent is tired of child´s problems and the parent want to give vocation to the child, my colleague sees that a personal insult against her.

She is rude, bad-mannered, ingrate, unloyal, she not compassionate towards anyone. And the worst of all ahe loves to humiliate others front of parents, childrens and other teachers and nanny´s; and she loves it!

I hope that I will never be like her. Because then all the hope is gone and nothing can done for me, that I would change. Then I no longer be useful to anyone.

I hope that with my personality this is impossible. And because I´m very loyal (normally), it´s hard to decide that should I be loyal to her or not.

Obviously she hate´s me because of my personality. This has been very clear to me from the begining.

Dear reader´s

First time I write in net. But I see so much in my life that I want to share those things with you. Especially in my work. Some person´s are woderfull character´s and some are very good to be a warning example.

Example of what kind of person we can´t come.

What kind of person I am? Well, few weeks ago I did this "personality test" just for fun. And it was amazing how right that was. It said:

That I seek opportunities to genuinely connect with others. Everything I do as a I has to be quality-based, or I won't do it at all. I am incredibly loyal to friends, employers, employees, and above all to my significant other.

Whatever or whomever I commit to is my sole (and soul) focus. I love to serve and will give freely of myself in order to nurture the lives of others.

My code of ethics is remarkably strong and I expect others to live honest, committed lives as well. I enjoy sharing meaningful moments in conversation as well as remembering special life events (e.g. birthdays and anniversaries).

The Core Motivation that drives me through life is "Intimacy". It is important to note that this does not mean sexual intimacy. I need connection - the sharing of rich, deep emotions that bind people together.

I will often sacrifice a great deal of time, effort, and/or personal convenience to develop and maintain meaningful relationships throughout my life.

And truts me, my dear reader´s, this is like "a red piece of clothing to the bull" to some people. Notably to my colleague. I hear lot that I´m a fake, that person with my personality doesn´t exist ect.